Dreaming of Becoming a better man? Get Counselling
Becoming the alpha ,that right there is the goal. Being the very best at your work. Congratulatory messages and comments flying around for your excellent results from all parties concerned for outdoing yourself at work or that venture you had been taking on. A happy wife ,a happy life and even happier children. People calling you to give speeches about what success or maybe not but you get the picture. That is all well and good and seems a little too good to be true basing on your current reality. The good things is, you can turn things around and the magic word is none other than counselling.
You’ve heard it all, you can’t cry you are a man and men don’t talk about their feelings that’s for women until it becomes pretty clear that whoever who was dishing it this memo forgot to give life one. It’s a good thing someone thought that you needed a safe space to de-stress and made a quiet place where you can just talk about you and cry all you want without making you feel like an idiot. With counselling you are getting a first class ticket to the land of self- awareness so as to be in a position to handle everything.
Once the junk is out your brain goes on to focus on what needs your immediate attention. They say a journey of a thousand miles start with a single step , the single step they are talking about here is you being in a great state of mind and then you can now start calling into being whatever else you want . In a perfect world ,worry wouldn’t exist and everything would be just great. Seeing that that may not be the world you live in counselling helps you know when to worry and whether its really worth worrying about and the best way to do it such that it doesn’t overtake you. Stress and anxiety are evils you can’t avoid and facing them with counselling as an ally is the best option.
Communication is much less what you say and everything to do with how you say it. Counselling helps you with your way of passing information such that whoever get’s it, receives it clearly but without feeling attacked. It will almost feel like you are half way there. Next move with counselling is they hand you a tool box with the tools you will need to go about life a day at a time. The change soon start to be visible and questions get asked whereby letting people in on your little secret becomes your choice. Counselling may not be everything but it can be quite something.